...ang bait mo naman!

This is a very good reminder for all of us.

 

HOW TO CONTROL EMOTIONS This would give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friends, officemates and all the people around you, especially your "boss". The rules of practicing "ugaling langit, ugaling kaaya-aya" : #1 Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.. #2 Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa. Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo. #3 Ang taong galit, 'bingi.' If someone is angry, wala raw pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya. #4 Ang taong galit, 'abnoy.' Ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? because the Lord said when He was crucified, "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa." Modern term for these kinds of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.  You should also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewel, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away those people; it's for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll know na mature ka na pag dumating 'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them. #5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na, because of this person, "I will grow mature," and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.  ...actually I just got this over an e-mail...natawa talaga ako sa message na 'to..parang kailangan ko talaga nito :)

...Moving on but holding still!

...Even though I still hope for us to be together
...Even if my heart still aches and long for you
...I need to move one and get on with my life
...I should! I must!

...To save the memories and the friendship that was built
...To have you completely even if it was just a mere memory of you
...To be with you tomorrow 
...Than to have you now but eventually lose you in the end

...You will always remain in the deepest corner of my heart
...For I know that I still be loving you even on a distance
...Against time...Against space
...For a lifetime. :)

...INTO THE OPEN SEA!

...basta naiiyak ako!ang aga-aga naging biglang disaster nang araw ko.Pangit talagang simulan ng buong araw mo kung pagpasok mo sa opisina eh sermon kaagad ang bubulaga sa'yo mabuti sana kung kasalanan mo pero hindi.Ikaw lang 'yong sumalo sa lahat pero kung iisipin kung sino yung my kasalanan talaga eh yon pa yung nagagalit!hai!Parang gusto kung magtago at 'wag magpakita sa opisinang 'to nang buong isang linggo, tingnan ko lang kund di mawala ang isip nila sa iiwan kung trabaho na di pwedeng ipagawa sa iba!hmp!

...Kakainis!parang ang sama-sama na nang araw ko!di ako makapagtrabaho nang mabuti...di makapag-isip ang utak ko kung ano ang gagawin kasi nga napako na lang d'on sa sermon na di naman ako dapat ang sinisermonan...d'on sa galit na wala naman akong kasalanan!

...Alam ko naman na di maganda ang iniisip kung gawin...naglalabas lang nang sama nang loob!hai...why is it there are persons who find it fulfilling to hurt other people's feeling...and on the contrary why there are people who couldn't accept that they have made a mistakes...hello!!!no one's perfect and most especially, No one out there is willing to be your puppet for you to control!

...This was just another heart shattering resentment I keep...I was never too good in expressing my emotions nor in reasoning...even though I am not doing any wrong...even if it wasn't my fault. I know I am a coward when it comes to expressing my own self and in standing for what I feel and know is right but that just me.

...Di ko talagang ugali ang sumagot kahit alam kong tama ako at wala akong kasalanan...I'll just prefer my silence...kasi nga naman ang iniisip ko kahit naman siguro sumagot ako wala paring madudulot na maganda. Di ko lang talaga gusto ang sumagot sagot kahit wala akong kasalanan...I'll just keep it all by myself kasi alam ko naman lalabas pa din ang totoo ano man ang mangyari...natatakot din akong sumagot basta di ko lang ugaling sumagot hindi sa dahil binabastos ko yung tao na hindi ako sumasagot kapag pagpinapagalitan ako, kasalanan ko man o hindi tumatahimik na lang ako...Less words, less mistakes ika nga....

...ganun pa man ako katahimik sa mga pagkakataong ganun marami pa rin ang nakakapagsabing napaka talkative ko!hahaha...talagang ngang maingay ako pero depende sa taong kasama ko...One thing that  shows that I am not comfortable with the person I am with is that I don't talk...that's why most first impression about  me is that MASUNGIT daw ako at tahimik...which is true I guess if I don't like that person or if I am not comfortable having that person around....I would rather sit, keep my silence and observe...and mind you, If I am observing, be warned!hahaha...

...Nagsimula na namang makulitan ang isip ko sa post na to kaya hanggang dito na lang ako!Nailabas ko na ang inis ko!haha... :)

...We came, we saw, we conquer the MUNICIPALITY OF HINOBAAN!

...Its been almost 1 month and 5 days since my last post, kinda busy, couldn't find time for another post though I've got a lot of things on my mind!Let me just start with a new adventure. I happened to not post any pictures since we didn't bring a camera :)

...Arrived at South Terminal around 4pm don't know where to go together with Sheila and our new  recruit "Chay Mameng" (I'ts a long story on how she got her name..haha). We just happen to choose between three available busses going to Canlaon CIty, Dumaguete City and Municipality of Hinobaan .After a short deliberation on what route to take we chooses the Municipality of  Hinobaan its simply a random picking and neither of us happened to set foot on that place!hahaha...

...At exactly 4:30pm the bus sets its way to Hinobaan for a five hour ride, kinda excited and a little bit nervous since its our first time on that place plus the fact that we don't know anyone in there and it's getting late!hahaha...chatting while on the bus makes the ride pleasurable.

...We have a stop over at Binalbagan City and we happen to bump with Nang Princess, She is our schoolmate back in College and my officemate now...a little chat and then we set our trail to our next stop at Kabankalan City.

...Kabankalan City is where my cravings for ice cream ended!hahaha...a little walk on their terminal while having some ice cream sum up our stop over at Kabankalan City.

...For almost 15 minutes of staying in Kabankalan City we then are heading to our real destination: The Municipality of Hinobaan. Actually we happened to past almost 3 cities or Municipality I think, namely: Ilog, Cauayan and Sipalay and then the last is the Municipality of Hinobaan for almost 3 hours. Whew!


...At exactly 9:30pm we arrived at the terminal of Hinobaan, with nowhere to go and hungry since we haven't eaten anything except for some curls and ice cream we set foot to their Municipality Proper which is only a few blocks away from the terminal.

...Funny but it was only 9:30pm but the streets are so quiet, well except for some who are having a good time.desperately looking for some resto where we can eat that we happen to pass by at "Lorna's Bigasan" and luckily they are having some inasal. We stop and have some chit-chat and after a few talks manong Jaime found it amusing that we have travel almost five hours just for some adventure considering the fact that we are all girls and its kinda late and we don't know anyone.hahaha..He offer us a help and a safe place to stay since he don't want us to just roam around the Municipality.

...After our dinner manong Jaime told dodoy his helper to accompany us for a tour in their small municipality. And speaking of small its kinda amusing that their municipality covers only a very small area that even the Lagoon here in Bacolod seems bigger.

...We have a trip at their little Municipality, Church, pass by at their Police Station, at their Public Market which is well maintained, clean and orderly and the last is at the beach which is only a few meters away from the Municipality proper.

...Really love the beach. Seems so peaceful. Their sand is somewhat different, its color is brown and I happen to bring for my aquarium!hehehe...we play for a while at the beach and then go back to Manong Jaime's place.

...We have a chat about life, love, school and many more with Manong Jaime. Kinda fascinating how Filipinos are truly hospitable. We didn't know Manong Jaime same as he didn't know us but after knowing our agenda for that night he offer us some help and a tour plus some foods. This shows how Filipinos are helpful and not only people form Hinobaan but generally all Filipinos since we have experienced it a lot of time every time we travel at places we haven't set our trails.

...We have promise that we are going to come back on that place and have a long trip this time together with the group since we haven't invited them!hehehe...we left the place at exactly 3:30 am.

...Hinobaan Municipality is such a beauty for an adventure. Although its a long travel from Bacolod City but still, it was worth the wait. It may not have a good view along the way unlike Don Salvador Benedicto but the place itself is enjoyable and welcoming!We have promise to come back and enjoy longer hours on that place and I wish Ralph was with us! :)